Andrew Pain is a TEDx speaker, high performance coach, blogger and campaigner. He talks and writes about domestic abuse, gaslighting, parenting within abuse and the complexities of parental alienation and family courts. His TEDx talk, ‘Domestic Abuse - not a gender issue’, is one of the only TEDx talks to describe female perpetrated violence, exploring the challenges of gender bias and the wider struggles faced by male survivors. Andrew is a regular contributor to popular blogs such as The Good Men Project, Happiful and Psych Reg and alongside his campaigning work, he co-leads a pilot project in Hertfordshire, supporting male survivors of domestic abuse. Professionally, Andrew has over 20 years’ HR experience, specialising now in coaching business leaders, helping them to realise their potential and get more done, but without getting busier or burnt out.